How to Impress a Sugar Babe
When you begin looking for a sugar babe of your own, it helps to know how to impress them. You want to present yourself as someone worth dating and fortunately, for older men, that’s not hard to do. Being yourself is often quite attractive, but there are a few other ways you can really impress your future sugar babe.
Talking
Women like a man who listens and you can impress a sugar babe by paying attention to her when she talks. This really starts from the time you begin chatting online. Respond to her, even when she isn’t actually asking you a question, to let her know that you are listening. Brushing up on your active listening skills is a good idea if you want to have a happy relationship and this is something nearly every man can work on.
Appreciation
Sugar babes like being appreciated. If you treat her like the princess she is, you’ll have yourself a loyal and happy lady by your side. There are many ways to show your appreciation, including taking her out to a nice dinner, putting some thought into romantic dates and taking things at her pace.
Gifts
Who doesn’t like to receive gifts? This can be a great way to show your sugar babe how much you care about her. Send her a box of chocolates or a cute stuffed animal to let her know you’re thinking of her. Surprise her with things she has mentioned that she likes. This is when those listening skills come in handy. If she mentions an obsession with a certain pair of shoes, buy them for her a month or so down the road, when she’s forgotten that you know and really impress her!
Honesty
This is more of a character trait than a method of conquering a girl’s heart. The fact of the matter is that women hate a liar. Be sure you are upfront with her about things that she will eventually find out about, such as past marriages, children, etc. While you might be able to invent a more thrilling man, most sugar babes will be happy just to have you as yourself, so don’t be afraid to tell the truth.
Support
Being there for your sugar babe is a sure way to impress her. Reassure her when she is worried and offer a shoulder to cry on when she has problems. This can start even during the online dating phase, it’s quite possible to offer your support via chat or email. You don’t necessarily have to offer a solution, though that may be welcome sometimes, but just listening is usually a big help.
You don’t have to change drastically or put on a front to impress a sugar babe. Just being yourself, being honest and paying attention to her is often all a girl wants from her man. If you can do that, you can impress a sugar babe, so get out there and go for it!
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Comment by amber on 22 July 2009:
ok all that sounds great….but what about safety? ur meeting complete starngers especially the 1s that dont hav pics hav got 2 make u wonder? and are sugarbabes just a mere modification of an escort girl?? im not knocking the sugar lifestyle cuz im signed up 2 just hav questions
Comment by Amber on 5 September 2009:
I have a question about sugar babes…are sugar babes only acceptable one way? Not to be rude, but all I keep seeing is the same thing…blond, really slim, sometimes plastic….perfect barbie doll types. Do any sugar daddies like anything other then that? I am a BBW, and beautiful, and have a killer personality, with a seriously high intellect to boot. I am wondering though if I would even stand a chance in this community. I am sorry if any feels offended by my description above, but I am not going to beat around the bush, this is all I see. You ladies are stunning! Anyone feel free to answer!
Comment by Mathias on 12 March 2010:
Amber, no:). No need to be a super model of any kind. I can only talk for me. I am attracted to girls with a down to earth, warm personality (they need to take care of their appearance, but they don’t have to be super models).
I can’t stand girls who more or less expect the man, the sugardad, to pay for a lot and then they give no warmth back. Total turn-off for me.
In this sugarbabe/sugardad equation it seems like people forget the sugardad. We, the sugardaddys, are the ones who decide who we want to be with or not. An in essence, without the sugardad there will be no sugarbabes:).
There are sugar women (women who pay for other men who in essence act as sugar babes for the ladies:)), but I am speaking strictly about the male side here.
Never forget that an unhappy sugardad has a closed mind and a closed wallet. Both sides need to click in order for a relationship to evolve.
Sugarbabes, please be nice and approachable. No diva attitudes, please, it is so unattractive and unnecessary. I would rather have a Lambi sugarbabe (a lady who is sweet and tender with me. Someone I will feel completely comfortable with because she caresses both my body and my soul). I would buy such a woman everything she pointed at. Because it is such a rare woman quality these days. It’s like the rarest of diamonds. If you find it…keep it close to your chest.
Until now, I have not met such a sugarbabe. They have all been too much of the diva type and as you might imagine, none of them are in my bed anymore. Such ladies make me nuts=).
Comment by Chocolate on 19 March 2010:
Amber, You do stand a chance, but unfortunately not on every site. I am also African American, 5ft 6in 1351bs, I have a very athletic body due to my Taebo workout 5-6 times per week. I wear a short Halle Berry cut, and I get alot of emails from rich caucasion men. But, on one site the majority of my emails were from Black Guys. After going on a date with a brother who lied about his non existing company, I decided to delete my profile, and try a different site. Jackpot! I was only on for a few days and I received many emails from Doctors, Business owners etc…I settled on a nice guy from DC, who’s rich, good to me, and takes care of me financially without me even asking. So with that being said. choose a site, post your pics, make sure they are not to provocative. and wait for the emails to come in. Good luck!!!!!!