10 Reasons to Date a Sugar Daddy
January 24th, 2008 • Related • Filed Under
Some may frown on you dating an older guy, but there are plenty of reasons to do so. Having your own personal Sugar Daddy has its benefits and if you are attracted to the guy, then this is just the type of relationship you need. Forget what your friends say, ignore those who call you a gold-digger and enjoy yourself. Or, show them this article and maybe they’ll realize that there really are some great reasons to try dating a Sugar Daddy!
- Older men are more mature than guys your own age, as you’ve probably noticed. If you’re tired of fooling around with kids and would like a more stable relationship, get yourself a sugar daddy.
- You will get more respect in a Sugar Daddy relationship. Older men know how to treat a woman, open doors for her, and generally respect her, they were raised in another time when these things were still taught.
- Everyone has baggage, whether it’s scars from a bad childhood, failed relationships or even children. Sugar Daddies are usually more tolerant of these issues than a younger guy, since they have more life experience.
- Most women feel safer around an older man, particularly when meeting for the first time after carrying on an online relationship. Sugar Daddies understand that safety is important to you and that you are nervous on the first meeting, so they’ll be happy to meet in a public place to set your mind at ease.
- Sugar Daddies not only know where the best restaurants are, they can actually afford to take you there.
- Older men are usually far more supportive of your dreams and ambitions and may have an idea of how you can reach them. They will often help you attain your goals, as well.
- Sexually speaking, Sugar Daddies tend to be more interested in pleasing their partner than reaching a quick climax. For the younger woman used to selfish, twenty-something men, this can be a huge benefit.
- Sugar Daddies know how to make you feel special. While gifts and vacations to France may be part of that, it is really more about treating you well, respecting you and paying attention to you, something most younger men wouldn’t do.
- Long term relationships are more probable with an older man. Your Sugar Daddy will have already done all the wild things he dreamed of in his youth and is most likely now ready to settle down. If you’re looking for a serious relationship, an older man will provide it.
- Romance-wise, Sugar Daddies are far better than younger men. They’ve had years of experience to learn just what women want and they know how to please you.
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Comment by SexySugarDaddys*com on 12 February 2008:
Excellent reasons on why you should choose to date a Sugar Daddy.
Sugar Daddy’s have a wealth of experience to seduce you and charm you to bits. They are normally very, charming, sexy and confident. You will probably feel more at ease, with someone more mature. More topical interesting conversations, will love to take you out to dinner and spoil you rotten.
Your Sexy Sugar Daddy will give you what you want - without you having to ask. What more could a girl ask for!
Comment by Ms.... on 1 December 2008:
I met my sugar daddy a whilke back but I kinda stopped talking to him… but weve met back up again… hes really nice and is everything youve mentioned above.. the reason I stopped talking to him before was because i was nervous about dating a man almost 30 years my senior.. do yu have any tips on how to overcome being so nervous
Comment by Zee on 3 March 2009:
I have been dating a guy who’s 38 for 3 months, He’s married with 2 kids. He has a great job in a big Company and earns a lot of money…I can tell that by the car he’s driving. But there’s a problem here because he does’nt do anything for me even if i ask. I just feel that he’s just stringing me along and when he’s tired of me he’ll just leave me and go back to his wife and i’ll have nothing to show for being with him. Am i wrong for wanting him to do things for me because this is already a Sugar daddy & Sugar baby relationship. Help!!!
Comment by Clarise on 27 March 2009:
I was in the same kind of relationship. Wealthy married guy who gave me nothing. The difference is he would actually say he would do something e.g. offer to pay my rent and come up with an excuse when it was due. You should start asking your guy for support. He is having great sex outside his marriage, he needs to make you feel wanted not only sexually but materially. either ask for money or you’ll never get anything. I never got anything from my guy because I never asked. It sucks to be sleeping with a rich married guy who is stingy. you might as well date a poor dude.
Comment by abelle on 11 April 2009:
Leave him. A sugar daddy should be helping you especially if hes married. He’s cheap-trying to get soemthing fro nothing. Not all rich men drive flashy cars..infact its the ones who want to show you they have money try the flashy stuff.
Comment by Airman on 23 April 2009:
Hi. I guess I am one of those dreaded sugar daddies. I have been dating a girl 1/2 my age for 5 years, and we both knew it would probably not be forever, but it might have been. She finally went back to a loser that she had been seeing on and off for a while - a guy she used to live with that treated her very poorly. But the reason I am writing is that from my perspective, I really cared deeply for her, and would have done about anything for her. I think it is natural for a man that cares for a girl to want to do things for her, and if your ‘Sugar Daddy’ does not seem to want this, then he is definitely just using you. I do not know if he will go back to his wife, because he was probably just using her too. Chances are he will move on to the next young girl he finds attractive if and when you no longer meet his emotional or physical needs. Every man who cares for a woman will want to do things for her - especially if he is much older and realizes how valuable it is to have a relationship with a beautiful younger woman. If you really want a long term relationship be very, very careful - I suspect you could do better - don’t waste your life on this guy. If you just want to have fun with him, and go do stuff, and you both understand that there is no real future but you like being with him for now, that is different, of course. Just be careful, because it sounds like you are setting yourself up for some heartache and perhaps wasting those valuable ‘courting’ years on a liar.
Comment by Miamori on 2 May 2009:
Zee, in my opinion this is not “wrong,” though it is NOT an SD/SB relationship if he does nothing for you. An SD/SB relationship is NOT exhibited by an age difference; it is about mutual spoiling. He is not spoiling you, therefore he is not an SB.
I advise that if this is something you want, and you are unhappy about not getting it, to simply speak with him bluntly. Otherwise it would just be something you must stomach.
If you to did not enter your relationship with the idea specifically in mind that you would be sugars (in that there would be “spoiling” on both sides), it may not be something he cares to do, so you should check.
It seems to me that you two need to communicate.
Comment by Paula on 18 June 2009:
No you are not wrong. What are you giving him? It has to be a two way street. If you are providing him with what he wants, then he should do the same in return. He is uses you and stringing you along! End it.
SB
Comment by goz on 24 June 2009:
wow, i didn’t realized that i was a sugar daddy, but you’ve got me pegged. we love our younger girls!
Comment by ruth on 11 August 2009:
i think his using you because like u explain he doesn’t even help you this is now means that in the future things can get uglier if u see what tipe of relaction you got yourself in you can see that his married and still he has you u need a man who can pay your rent if u need it a man who cares for you who’s there for u when u need him a man who can surprice you girl don’t waist your time you need a sugar daddy not a man who will use you than throw you away life is very difficult without help and is short also.
Comment by ShoRtie on 8 September 2009:
How do you ask for monetary items without making him feel like you are just being “sweet” for the goods when all you want is a little more appreciation than what you are getting?
Comment by Judy on 3 October 2009:
I am a university students in my early 20s and I am dating one of the professors, he’s in late 30s but very attractive, looks young and very caring. Its true that mature men tend to be very caring and loving compare to young dudes, who most important thing in the organ between the two legs! I find the relationship very rewarding and fulfilling and I do no ask for anything and if he feels like helping he’s always done that and sometimes I’d to refuse because I feel he stretches himself too much for me. I read your article and I realize that I have sugar daddy.
Comment by shannon on 20 October 2009:
oh yeah..lol im 25 5/7 122 cute sexy black/indian more girl next door type
Comment by Lots of Luv on 7 December 2009:
I have been on and off with a man 32 years my senior. (since i was 16) I lied and said i was 18 at the time but wasn’t, Anyway. I am now almost 23 and still madly in love with him ( THIS HAS NEVER CHANGED). I have severed my ties before with little luck. I have been married and divorced and in another relationship. Things recently became physical again with a dramatic weight loss. I guess what i am asking is… is it impossible to have an LTR with him. I adore and worship my daddy, i enjoy all the sexual and intimate aspects. I honestly wouldn’t change a thing except the exclusivity of it.
So any help?
Comment by Sweetpea on 12 December 2009:
Yes, it is obvious that when a person is better in talking than in acting, this guy is a crab and making use of people. Run!!
I encountered this type of poor quality sugardady, he was an arab, claimed to be rich Bristish. I should have been cautious. He sounded serious and sweet and promising, and only after knowing him personally, and realized that he is good at making used of people. He is very sub-standard, cheap or I would even say low-standard. Wasting my 3 months time, I dust off my feet, blessed him and moved on. He will get back what he deserved.
A genuine sugardaddy will ofer help in small or big way, or he would have cared to want to give you gifts as a form of appreciation. So, don’t believe in talker from a stranger.
Comment by Babie on 6 January 2010:
The man Is probably broke or just a jerk.Find yourself a real man!
Comment by Sweets on 8 January 2010:
Wow .. These comments are crazy well too any (sd) that read this comment im a young ladie looking to be someone’S (sb) so that he can help me w. My needs hangout nnd ill pleassure him..cook ..clean
Comment by Parris on 18 January 2010:
A sugar daddy will spoil you. You don’t have to ask. He would not have drama from his life in your face. Age to me is a big factor reference a true sugar daddy. 39 year old man is not a sugar daddy. He is simply a player. I consider a sugar daddy to be at least 55 -56 that’s the minimum age and also at least 10-15 years your senior.
I have encountered a sugar daddy who just calls me and ask me what I need. Do I have gas etc. Also reminds me “don’t forget if you need anything let me know.” I flatter him with pleasantries, “thank you so much”, “you are so sweet” etc.
Yep. I can play the role. Now let me tell you I do not find him attractive and I need to really get over that part. But he treats me better than any man my age.
So I need tips on how to get over him not being attractive to me. I guess I need to have a drink sometimes when I know I will be around him. But he is clean, stylish etc.
Any tips…
Comment by MichaelW on 27 February 2010:
There’s no such thing as a free lunch…
If you want from your SD, and he sounds a nice guy, you have to pretend.
If you have a revulsion to him, you should look for an alternative, otherwise, as per the pleasantries, play the role.
DON’T use drink; it’s a grave digger.
Best wishes,
MichaelW
Comment by miss_t on 9 March 2010:
sugar daddies are morally degrading you girls so stop being fooled. if they are cheating on their wives, what will stop them from doing the same on you. SDs are a bigh NO! NO!
Comment by Mathias on 12 March 2010:
Parris, I guess it is in the nature of sugardaddy/sugarbabe relations. But I can’t shake of the idea of how cold it sounds when you describe the relationship (although very much business as this sugarbabe thing in fact is) with this poor old sugardad fellow of yours.
As a sugardad I want currency for my money and that includes a warm attitude towards me and the feeling that the sugarbabe actually likes to hang around with me (although no need to love me, but still the feeling that she actually likes to be with me. With or without drinking alcohol. I actually dislike women who treat me like that. Especially when I am as generous as I am with my money. Why treat a disinterested lady with any money or attention at all? Better split ways quickly).
Take this as a 3rd party observation. No attack on you, Parris (I am just pointing out how I look at this from my point of view in a general way). It just seems like you hate the sugarbabe situation you are in with this old fellow so why continue meeting him? Why not find a new and more attractive sugardad and have the best of both worlds? You only life once, right:)?
From a friend, not a foe.
As of age difference. I don’t agree. I mean I am 24 years old, making more money than many in my age. I have a rather pleasant appearance (I am not an Antonio Banderas look-a-like, but still). I am sure a young stud like me can be just as mature or more than many of the old 50 year olds. Probably with more stamina in bed as well;).
And, who doesn’t like nice looking studs/hunks walking (or laying) by their. Someone who also pays for the luxury? Two good things in one package I would say=). No:)?
Don’t write the younger guys of. We are a better deal all-around. We still have stamina in bed, we still are able to do intersting trips because we are vital, we are more charming than older men due to our boyish looks and wry smiles. AND we have the cash to spend. Look at my age level and you will be happy, I promise you that.
And about the “player” stuff: that is what this sugarbabe/sugardad is all about anyhow. No? Have I missed the point of these hook-ups? That is what this is: A male OR a rich woman pays for the companionship (Sexually or not) of someone else of the opposite or the same gender. It is not a relationship in the normal sense. It is a business relationship: hence a playful relationship:).
Comment by Chocolate on 19 March 2010:
I am a 33 yr old African American who is new to the SD/ SB scene. 3wks new to be exact. I got many emails my first day and decided to settle with a SD from DC who’s the owner of his own finance company.This man has money to burn! Not only that he is sweet, smart, and he enjoys making me happy. a week after talking to him on the phone, he texted me one day and told me to go to Western Union to pick up the money he sent me. Keep in mind we have only seen each others pics, he lives in DC, I live in MI.In my opinion once that SD have decided to establish a one on one relationship with you, all of your financial needs should be asked. I have never even slept with my SD and he’s sending me money already. I asked him why did he do that so early on, he told me that he never wants me to have to worry about money ever again,and that a real SD should know even in the beginning what his babys financial obligations are and meet them without being told. So please do not waste anymore of your time,good looks, and youth. on another one of these stingy frauds who has no idea what a SD’s role is.
Comment by Anamika on 20 March 2010:
I have a few friends who are married or have dated older men. According to them older men have a lot to offer in terms of maturity, wisdom and experience. They are also well settled in their jobs or business and like to pamper their mates.
I have nothing against older man younger women relationships. If they are happy together who are we to criticize?
Comment by bebe on 31 March 2010:
Don’t think abt his looks if he treats well what else do you want? Woul you prefer George Clooney who will not give a damn abt you. Grass is always greener this other side.
I did meet Sd who took me shopping before we went to bed. After we slept together that stoped but he still takes me to expensive meals and vacations, he is passionate, romantic,perfect gent. Even though i haven’t asked him anything yet.He is married and acts in a manner as if his wife doesn’t exist, what do think this is? we stay out long nights and text each other anytime.I do want to ask him money but don’t know how. Please help.
Comment by Nancy on 6 April 2010:
i wanna a sugar daddy flyinghorseldy@aol.com
Comment by sbsugar on 20 April 2010:
Parris… I don’t think you can speak for all 39 yo SDs…I was dating a SINGLE 35 yo guy…A “B LIST” celebrity, and yes.. a huge player. But i didnt care. I wasn’t looking for a serious relationship or love… At least i wouldn’t be with a 35yo guy. I was attracted to him and yes…his fame and money! We dated for some. I myself told him, that if he wanted to see other women he could, i wasn’t going to play a wifey role or anything. These SD/SB relationships aren’t about love. And people always mix it up, and cross the line. Busy, successfull men DONT want any drama or controlling. He gets enough of that from his wife. Sb gets her fun and finicial pampering, and SD gets his hot,young, energetic, fun and affectionate girl with NO drama. Thats all it is. And if he wants to date 5 more other girls…than GOOD for him! Although it is very rear, since many are so busy with work and family they barely have time for 1…
Comment by Seli on 30 May 2010:
Well…i think I found a sugar daddy by chance. I wasn’t out looking for one, but after a few ruined dates through a dating website we chatted online about our experiences and well…kinda found we had a lot more in common than we thought.
He’s 53, i’m 25…he’s in NY, i’m in Australia, yet he is so keen on seeing me that he has booked me a ticket over, paid for the renewal of my passport and even transfered cash for my car loan repayments - just so i don’t have to worry about it when i’m there with him and not working.
Am i nervous…well no, i guess the fact that he is older (A lot more) kinda makes me feel at ease. He offers EVERYTHING without me even speaking a word. i.e. we were talking about the vehicles we owned when he said “oh, that’s a new car, you must be still making payments on the loan, i’ll transfer cash to cover the payment while you’re here with me”.
He’s offered to pay for my studies in the US if i do choose to relocate, and has stated that i am free to choose to work or not - he will still make sure my financial needs are met.
I can’t believe it really…i’m no gold digger - i am 25, good looking, intelligent and could spin quite a few of these rich daddies here in Australia if I wanted to…i just can’t believe that this man i have met is offering so much to me, so keen on my dreams and goals, so keen on my happiness - he doesnt even want me to cook/clean, so that i can spend quality time with him. He also is a lot more understanding of my past experience (1 only but REALLY BAD). So yea…i think i’ve found a sugar daddy. He does openly state that he is also lucky to have found a younger, intelligent woman that shares the same goals in life, enjoys the same things, etc. Does that make me feel like an “object”? Simply, no - because as I said - he is always going out of his way to make me happy and he understands what my life goals, my needs are. SO yes - i’m hopping on a plane soon to NY to meet him
Comment by Seli on 30 May 2010:
also, would like to add, he has opened quite a few doors to me - he said he could get a job for me in a large bank in NY city - the man has so many contacts, it’s amazing.
Comment by Beauty on 13 June 2010:
I need tips how to find educated and caring man. I’m attractive and confident, smart and gorgeous 24y.o girl who can relocate…
ert_z@ymail.com
Comment by Victoria on 13 June 2010:
I am stylish girl from Poland who wants love
Comment by Lisa on 18 July 2010:
im looking for an educated gentleman in los angeles. im 20 and a model/singer
missanami@yahoo.com
Comment by sugar daddy dater on 23 July 2010:
If you are dating with a sugar daddy then it means that you are in good hand. Dating with them is just like that you have a bank that you can always withdraw when you are needed. But just don’t be too obvious that you are all after of his wealth.
Comment by tausi on 31 August 2010:
ithink i will migrate to states.thats where all nice genune sds are.UK none at all afew fake wanna bes.
Comment by Carolyn on 24 September 2010:
Hi, My name is Carolyn, im 21 years old and lives in Sweden, scandinavia. ( Stockholm) Im looking for a nice man that can take care of me and make me feel like a princess. I am pretty, and I like syle and faishon.
If you’re the man for me, send me an email at carolyn.sw@live.se
/ Carolyn
Comment by GEORGE on 10 December 2010:
HI
I AM VERY INTERESTED
Comment by Bethany on 28 February 2011:
i am sexy girl from p.r lookingfor a sugardaddy
Comment by Sugar Babby on 18 March 2011:
I have a few friends who are married or have dated older men. According to them older men have a lot to offer in terms of maturity, wisdom and experience. They are also well settled in their jobs or business and like to pamper their mates.
I have nothing against older man younger women relationships. If they are happy together who are we to criticize?
Comment by Heather on 24 May 2011:
Coming from an experienced SB…get everything up front before you sleep with them, pre-qualify, weed out the losers that want to use you, there are plenty of them and don’t sell yourself short. Do not carry on frivolous online relationships more than a few conversations (online and on the phone) without a ticket in hand to meet you, they are wasting your time and bored with their lives. Last but not least, carry yourself in a manner on the first date that is classy and making them want more…if your point in being a SB is to have an allowance, speak about it then in a classy way and make sure there is a clear understanding. You will never get what you want in life on the back end, always get it up front or move on. Should have, could have, would have will leave you bitter and you should only blame yourself for being stupid (or just inexperienced). And there is is nothing wrong with wanting finer things in life just know there will be some scarifies and make sure you have friends to call when things go wrong or not your way, NEVER show weakness to a SD, he will call you, men hate being ignored!