10 Reasons to Date a Sugar Daddy
Some may frown on you dating an older guy, but there are plenty of reasons to do so. Having your own personal Sugar Daddy has its benefits and if you are attracted to the guy, then this is just the type of relationship you need. Forget what your friends say, ignore those who call you a gold-digger and enjoy yourself. Or, show them this article and maybe they’ll realize that there really are some great reasons to try dating a Sugar Daddy!
- Older men are more mature than guys your own age, as you’ve probably noticed. If you’re tired of fooling around with kids and would like a more stable relationship, get yourself a sugar daddy.
- You will get more respect in a Sugar Daddy relationship. Older men know how to treat a woman, open doors for her, and generally respect her, they were raised in another time when these things were still taught.
- Everyone has baggage, whether it’s scars from a bad childhood, failed relationships or even children. Sugar Daddies are usually more tolerant of these issues than a younger guy, since they have more life experience.
- Most women feel safer around an older man, particularly when meeting for the first time after carrying on an online relationship. Sugar Daddies understand that safety is important to you and that you are nervous on the first meeting, so they’ll be happy to meet in a public place to set your mind at ease.
- Sugar Daddies not only know where the best restaurants are, they can actually afford to take you there.
- Older men are usually far more supportive of your dreams and ambitions and may have an idea of how you can reach them. They will often help you attain your goals, as well.
- Sexually speaking, Sugar Daddies tend to be more interested in pleasing their partner than reaching a quick climax. For the younger woman used to selfish, twenty-something men, this can be a huge benefit.
- Sugar Daddies know how to make you feel special. While gifts and vacations to France may be part of that, it is really more about treating you well, respecting you and paying attention to you, something most younger men wouldn’t do.
- Long term relationships are more probable with an older man. Your Sugar Daddy will have already done all the wild things he dreamed of in his youth and is most likely now ready to settle down. If you’re looking for a serious relationship, an older man will provide it.
- Romance-wise, Sugar Daddies are far better than younger men. They’ve had years of experience to learn just what women want and they know how to please you.
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Comment by SexySugarDaddys*com on 12 February 2008:
Excellent reasons on why you should choose to date a Sugar Daddy.
Sugar Daddy’s have a wealth of experience to seduce you and charm you to bits. They are normally very, charming, sexy and confident. You will probably feel more at ease, with someone more mature. More topical interesting conversations, will love to take you out to dinner and spoil you rotten.
Your Sexy Sugar Daddy will give you what you want - without you having to ask. What more could a girl ask for!
Comment by Ms.... on 1 December 2008:
I met my sugar daddy a whilke back but I kinda stopped talking to him… but weve met back up again… hes really nice and is everything youve mentioned above.. the reason I stopped talking to him before was because i was nervous about dating a man almost 30 years my senior.. do yu have any tips on how to overcome being so nervous
Comment by Zee on 3 March 2009:
I have been dating a guy who’s 38 for 3 months, He’s married with 2 kids. He has a great job in a big Company and earns a lot of money…I can tell that by the car he’s driving. But there’s a problem here because he does’nt do anything for me even if i ask. I just feel that he’s just stringing me along and when he’s tired of me he’ll just leave me and go back to his wife and i’ll have nothing to show for being with him. Am i wrong for wanting him to do things for me because this is already a Sugar daddy & Sugar baby relationship. Help!!!
Comment by Clarise on 27 March 2009:
I was in the same kind of relationship. Wealthy married guy who gave me nothing. The difference is he would actually say he would do something e.g. offer to pay my rent and come up with an excuse when it was due. You should start asking your guy for support. He is having great sex outside his marriage, he needs to make you feel wanted not only sexually but materially. either ask for money or you’ll never get anything. I never got anything from my guy because I never asked. It sucks to be sleeping with a rich married guy who is stingy. you might as well date a poor dude.
Comment by abelle on 11 April 2009:
Leave him. A sugar daddy should be helping you especially if hes married. He’s cheap-trying to get soemthing fro nothing. Not all rich men drive flashy cars..infact its the ones who want to show you they have money try the flashy stuff.
Comment by Airman on 23 April 2009:
Hi. I guess I am one of those dreaded sugar daddies. I have been dating a girl 1/2 my age for 5 years, and we both knew it would probably not be forever, but it might have been. She finally went back to a loser that she had been seeing on and off for a while - a guy she used to live with that treated her very poorly. But the reason I am writing is that from my perspective, I really cared deeply for her, and would have done about anything for her. I think it is natural for a man that cares for a girl to want to do things for her, and if your ‘Sugar Daddy’ does not seem to want this, then he is definitely just using you. I do not know if he will go back to his wife, because he was probably just using her too. Chances are he will move on to the next young girl he finds attractive if and when you no longer meet his emotional or physical needs. Every man who cares for a woman will want to do things for her - especially if he is much older and realizes how valuable it is to have a relationship with a beautiful younger woman. If you really want a long term relationship be very, very careful - I suspect you could do better - don’t waste your life on this guy. If you just want to have fun with him, and go do stuff, and you both understand that there is no real future but you like being with him for now, that is different, of course. Just be careful, because it sounds like you are setting yourself up for some heartache and perhaps wasting those valuable ‘courting’ years on a liar.
Comment by Miamori on 2 May 2009:
Zee, in my opinion this is not “wrong,” though it is NOT an SD/SB relationship if he does nothing for you. An SD/SB relationship is NOT exhibited by an age difference; it is about mutual spoiling. He is not spoiling you, therefore he is not an SB.
I advise that if this is something you want, and you are unhappy about not getting it, to simply speak with him bluntly. Otherwise it would just be something you must stomach.
If you to did not enter your relationship with the idea specifically in mind that you would be sugars (in that there would be “spoiling” on both sides), it may not be something he cares to do, so you should check.
It seems to me that you two need to communicate.
Comment by Paula on 18 June 2009:
No you are not wrong. What are you giving him? It has to be a two way street. If you are providing him with what he wants, then he should do the same in return. He is uses you and stringing you along! End it.
SB
Comment by goz on 24 June 2009:
wow, i didn’t realized that i was a sugar daddy, but you’ve got me pegged. we love our younger girls!
Comment by ruth on 11 August 2009:
i think his using you because like u explain he doesn’t even help you this is now means that in the future things can get uglier if u see what tipe of relaction you got yourself in you can see that his married and still he has you u need a man who can pay your rent if u need it a man who cares for you who’s there for u when u need him a man who can surprice you girl don’t waist your time you need a sugar daddy not a man who will use you than throw you away life is very difficult without help and is short also.